For couples
Wedding RSVPs
Send each household their own link. They reply in about a minute, tell you what they can eat, and your guest list, headcount and seating plan all update themselves.
How replies actually come in
Nothing for the guest to install, join, or remember.
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Each household gets a link
Private to that invitation, by email or printed on the card. It opens on their names, not a login screen.
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They answer for their party
Yes, no, or maybe for each person, plus dietary requirements, allergies and anything they want to tell you.
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Your numbers move on their own
The guest list, the headcount for each part of the day, the caterer’s summary and the seating plan all follow the reply.
What comes back with the reply
Yes, no, and maybe
Per person, not per envelope, so the two who can come are not lost behind the two who cannot.
Dietary needs and allergies
In the guest’s own words, gathered into one summary for whoever is cooking.
A deadline that holds
Replies stay editable until your date, then close — so the numbers you take to the venue stop moving.
Your own wedding website
Free, on its own address, with the day’s details, a registry and the same RSVP built in.
Photos from your guests
Turn on sharing and guests can add their pictures to your albums afterwards. Off by default; it is your call.
Nobody gets in uninvited
An invitation lets a guest reply and share photos. Seeing the rest of your wedding takes your approval, every time.
Chasing replies is the actual job
The reply itself is easy. What costs couples weeks is everything around it: working out who has not answered, asking again without being rude, and then copying what people said into the list, the seating chart and the note for the caterer.
Paper cards make that worse, because the information arrives one envelope at a time and immediately has to be typed up somewhere. Group messages make it worse in a different way — twelve people reply, four of them ambiguously, and one changes their mind eight weeks later in a thread you have muted.
An RSVP that writes straight into the guest list removes the retyping and the ambiguity together. You can see at a glance who has not replied, the answers are in the guest’s own words, and a change of plan lands in the same place as the original answer instead of somewhere in your phone.
Questions couples ask
Do guests need to create an account to reply?
No. Their invitation link opens straight onto their own reply — no password, no sign-up, nothing to download. Guests who do want an account can ask for one, and you decide whether to let them in.
Can they change their answer afterwards?
Yes, up until your RSVP deadline. They open the same link and change it, which is far better than a change of plan reaching you by text message and never reaching the list.
How do replies work for a family or a couple?
A household shares one invitation, so one person can reply for everybody on it. Each person still answers for themselves — their own yes or no, their own meal, their own allergies.
What about guests who are not online?
You can record a reply on their behalf. Somebody phoning your mum still ends up in the same list as everybody else, counted the same way.
Can I collect dietary requirements and allergies?
Yes, and it is part of the same reply rather than a separate chase. Guests give their requirements, allergies and any notes when they accept, and it all comes back as one summary you can hand to the caterer.
Can I set an RSVP deadline?
Yes. Set a date and replies close after it. Until then the portal shows guests what they have said and lets them change it.
Do we get a wedding website too?
Yes — a free wedding website on your own address, with your day's details, a gift registry if you want one, and the same RSVP built into it. Both routes feed the one guest list.
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